Help?
I got this question as fanmail. Since I’m with a cis person, I can’t really help. Followers?
I have a question. When my (trans*) girlfriend is going through dysphoria, is it better for me to just silently be here, or try to pull her out of it and reassure her? I know this varies from person to person a lot, but right now I’m far away so I can’t just hold her…
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ressurection-test liked this
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pyrzqxgl reblogged this from tal9000 and added:
she doesn’t like talking about it? At all? Gah. It is maddening. I ask my girlfriend that she tell
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purplegoesbothways liked this
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tal9000 reblogged this from dearcissexism and added:
Ask her? For me, if you’re trying to be there for me and we’re talking online, being silent is not the thing to do....
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mxbuttfarts reblogged this from dearcissexism and added:
Fucking ask HER what will help. What helps one person might hurt another person.
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dearcissexism posted this
