Anonymous asked: I'm a cis queer woman dating the most beautiful trans* woman in the world right now. I still have feelings for my first crush on a woman (not reciprocated; that was explored years ago). I don't want to keep this from my girlfriend, but I know she already feels bad/is dysphoric because she feels like she's keeping me from dating "real" women (and her ex broke up with her for trans* and poly related reasons). I don't want to keep things from her, even if I won't act on it. What should I do?
Honestly, I have my own suggestions about what you should do, but as I’m dating a cis man, I really don’t feel like I can say anything.
Would any of my followers like to help this lovely lady?
